I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimm...
I once had a friend who     grew to be very close to me.
Once when we were sitting     at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with     some water and held it before me and said: "You see this water carefully     contained on my hand? It symbolises Love."
    This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand carefully open and     allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you     attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will     spill through the first cracks it finds. This is the greatest mistake     that people do when they meet love...they try to possess it, they     demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your     hand, love will retrieve from you .
For love is meant to be     free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow     them to be free human beings.
Please "Give and don't     expect".
"Advise, but don't order".
"Ask, but never demand".
"Advise, but don't order".
"Ask, but never demand".
It might sound simple, but     it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the     secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no     expectations from those whom you love, and yet an unconditional caring."
We should emulate from     children about "unconditional love".